I wrote this piece a few weeks ago as an SEO assessment on a writing site which by the way I passed (thank you very much) and it is about the new year, so I figure since the new year is actually here and i am not violating any law by using my fiction, I have decided to share it. Perhaps, it will motivate you to do better this year. Happy New Year once again!
For some, the concept of the new year is refreshing perhaps
because the just concluded year has been good or because lessons have been
learnt from some mistakes made and so the new year is seen as a chance to do better
and improve. To others, there is just no cause for celebrating new year myths.
In their respected opinion, life has been unfair and another new year is just
another opportunity to be slapped around by misfortunes over again.
But here is the thing, no matter who we are or how life has
served us; the new year can truly - no fairy tales- be of amazing benefits to
us.
According to Wikipedia ''New Year is the time at which a new
calendar year begins.''
What this simply suggest is that - life - in general pretty
much follows the same laws as our aging process and irrespective of our
grievances, it keeps going on like a deaf phenomenon unaware of our raging
requests but duly carrying out its basic duties.
So life is not the problem, - we can hardly do anything
about how it operates anyway - that leaves only us.
We tend to think that the big events in our lives are the
most important: graduation, getting married or the birth of a child.
But actually major life events are often not directly as
important to our well-being as the little hassles and uplifts of everyday life
( Kanner et al., 1981 ).
What affects people's happiness mostly are things like
quality of sleep, little ups and downs at work and relationships with friends
and family. In other words: it's the little things that make us happy.
Just as no (sane) man leaves his house to go to work when he
knows his kitchen is on fire, without first controlling the situation; same
way, in celebrating new year opportunities, you should pay more attention to
your everyday life and not necessarily the whole year ahead. Once you have
covered the basis, you can begin to look at the bigger issues.
Come to think of it, it is documented that only relatively
recently 1 January became the first day of the year in Western culture. Until
1751 in England and Wales (and all British dominions) the new year started on
25 March – Lady Day , one of the four quarter days (the change to 1 January
took place in 1600 in Scotland). Since then, 1 January has been the first day
of the year. (Source: en.wikipedia.org/wiki/)
So you see, there is really no big deal about this
particular day chosen to start a new year. It is just one day in 365 days,
however, to you, it should also be a symbolic landmark to build on your
successes or to start all over again.
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